When waiting is not possible we can always think thoughts of them learning what they need to learn in order to experience life in a richer, more fulfilling way.  Beyond all of this we can still choose to act with full awareness that we are possibly overstepping their own volition.  We can act with awareness that our actions will have results that we have chosen to accept even if those experiences are less than we may want. 

Always the most important factor in our willingness to help, as in all areas of our lives, is that we enter into our thoughts and actions consciously and with an intention to be a part of everyone’s highest good.  And always the most difficult task in helping another is getting out of the way and letting them find themselves.

So once again I choose to risk the opinions of my acquaintances while empowering those in need and supporting them to discover how powerful they really are.